Empower Your Soul

Weathervane Witches: Building Connections

• Medium Nicole • Season 1 • Episode 76

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We discuss how the Weathervane Witches formed a close-knit group and share our experiences and insights from our journeys. The conversation revolves around the importance of women supporting each other through vulnerability, strength, and shared spiritual practices.

• Origins of the Weathervane Witches group  
• Importance of supportive friendships among women  
• Vulnerability as a core strength in sisterhood  
• Shared spiritual practices and their power  
• Personal and professional growth stories within the group  
• The role of connection and reflection in our lives  
• How to create meaningful relationships with others  
• The transformative nature of collaboration and community  

Weathervane Witches Contact Info:

To Connect with Adriana:

Instagram: AdriKeefe
Website: www.AdrianaKeefe.com
Podcast: https://thenobshumandesignpodcast.buzzsprout.com/

To Connect with Rachael:

Instagram: thegoodwitchofthenortheast
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thegoodwitchofthenortheast4737

To Connect with Jess:

Instagram: beamyourheart
Website: Jtbwellness.com

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Speaker 1:

Hello there and welcome back to Empower your Soul. This is such a personal episode for me because I have had the amazing, amazing opportunity to get to know the women that you're going to hear today.

Speaker 1:

This is an episode with all of and this is my group of what I call my weathervane witches. So I have talked about them a little bit over the course of this podcast. But this is essentially a local group of women that was kind of started by Adriana and you'll hear her and she was looking for I'm going to say the word a coven, because I think that's the easiest way to understand it. But we're not all witches, although we kind of are all witches. I don't know, it's complicated but she wanted a coven of women who were strong, who are entrepreneurs and that had dreams of going places. So she handpicked because this is such an Adriana thing If you knew her, she's a connector like this is who she is, she's like the ultimate networker and she's meant to connect people from her human design. You've heard her, she's been on the podcast before. So it makes complete sense to me that she kind of handpicked us for this little group and we have since become really, really good friends and we first got together in September of last year. So this has been, I'm going to say, relatively new, but it's been such an amazing journey getting to know these women and we are constantly texting all day long. We're messaging each other all day long and they have been my safe space to really truly be myself, to talk about my business, to talk about how I'm feeling today, and they're so wonderful and I'll talk about it a little bit in the episode about being reflective and helping me kind of see things from different perspectives and helping expand me for whatever is coming in my future. So we have been talking about doing these podcast episodes for a little while now because we just were so good at bouncing energy and information off of each other and when you get us together, the energy just swirls and amplifies and it's just so fun and it creates these amazing downloads. So I thought I would take this episode and share it with all of you to talk about this amazing group of women and, if you like this, I'll continue to post it on this podcast as we get together once a month and just talk about things that are going on and getting different perspectives, because all of us bring all of us in my Weathervane Witches group and we're called Weathervane Witches because we're all north, south, east and west of a major city.

Speaker 1:

So that's my lovely husband came up with that name. He's amazing, so I thought it would just be so much fun to share how we kind of came together, what that looks like, how we benefit from each other, and I don't know. I don't know. To be honest, I don't know what you're going to get out of this. So enjoy it. If you like it, let me know. If you got something out of it, let me know.

Speaker 1:

But I think it just creates this amazing dynamic when we get together where we want to just share everything that we know, everything we're feeling, everything we're seeing, in case somehow it benefits all of you. So that's kind of the point of this. That being said, adriana is could you believe she's? She's such a go getter, so she wants to lead and she wants to act as the interviewer. So I was like go ahead, girl, I don't mind at all. So she's going to really be directing a lot of the conversation that you're going to hear in this podcast, but I hope you enjoy it because it's so amazing and she's sharing it on her podcast as well, and I think I'm going to set up a Weathervane Witches podcast for fun too. So TBD, we will see. But I hope you enjoy this and, without further delay, here is the first installment of the Weathervane Witches. Take care.

Speaker 3:

The four of us beautiful women are sitting here. Take care, you guys, the witches, the coven I mean I'm like four covens now, I guess. But you guys I talk to like every single day and I talk about you guys a lot on this podcast, especially because if I'm having something business related, I typically go to you guys. I mean half because you're local and you get me on a personal level, half because you guys are intuitive as shit. You're like, well, spirit said don't do that. And I'm like, okay, fine, okay sure. So this kind of started early fall, I think. Right, jess, I think it was.

Speaker 2:

Yep, okay, we got coffee. I think it was end of the summer.

Speaker 3:

Somewhere around there Out in a ruck oh, that's right.

Speaker 3:

Okay, and I had been.

Speaker 3:

So last year I was in a wonderful business mastermind and then, after I stopped investing in that because I had outgrown it, I was like, man, this is just like really lonely doing it on your own, and my mentors aren't currently in like mastermind level and no one is local to me.

Speaker 3:

Like I felt like I was the only weirdo out here who was like talking to dead people and like doing this human design thing. And so I really, really wanted to call in a group of aligned women who not only were local but who were business owners of some sort and healers, spiritual of some sort. And then so Jess and I met for coffee and I was like, listen, I really want to like get a pod of women who are like end up being like best friends. And then so Jess and I met for coffee and I was like, listen, I really want to like get a pod of women who are like end up being like best friends. And then we're starting to brainstorm on like who this could be, and I don't remember if I mentioned anyone right off the bat, jess, I feel like it came later.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I think we just made like a list of like do we want them to be all mothers, or you know like what types of businesses we did I forgot about that.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, we made like a wishlist as if we were looking for a partner. I forgot about that I wish.

Speaker 2:

I knew hey, we were intentional, you have to be intentional with your life.

Speaker 3:

We were very intentional, that's so true. And then later I was kind of scouting out on like social media and thinking about who I had like run into lately. I had just met Rachel and I think I had already seen Nicole somewhere. I don't remember. The timeline on that time is so weird I have no idea.

Speaker 3:

But then I started seeing you guys pop up on Instagram and I was like Ooh them? And so I sent you guys individually a message and I was kind of feeling you out first. Before I asked you, I was like listen, what do you want to do with your business? Because, like Jess and I didn't really want to stay small. We wanted women who were going to push us and borderline, intimidate us and make us step out of our comfort zones. And Nicole and Rachel both I don't remember what you said, but obviously I liked it and I was like so we're doing this thing and that's kind of how we started. We all met for lunch at Via and everyone hit it off, I think right off the bat. So here we are five, five, six months later. I don't know when that was and probably should have done the math on this whole timeline.

Speaker 2:

It doesn't matter that much seven months really was like.

Speaker 4:

I think it was like August we should see, we should do a chart reading on our meeting oh, I'll do that after.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, right, yes, I will, and I'll put it in the show notes. Casey, can we put that in the show notes? Thank you, okay. Um, so that, yeah, we hit it off and we've just been collaborating, connecting, crying with each other, leaning on each other ever since and it's just, it's fucking magical. So first I just want to say thank you to you guys for joining in on this and for pouring into the group just as much as I do, because my line for us, like, if you don't have a relationship that gives an ROI, it just it's, it's not there for me and I very much feel that return on investment with this group. So, thank you guys, so much for that. And now I'm going to pass the mic to Jess to introduce herself, and then we'll continue introducing everyone else and say whatever else you want to say about this little little group, I guess.

Speaker 2:

Yeah well, first off, I actually did not know that you, Adriana, did not know Nicole and Rachel like very well prior to our meeting, like because you kind of coordinated this whole thing, like in typical Jess fashion. Like you and I met, we have we like closed down the coffee shop planning it right, and then I was like go for it, like, and then you did the rest, like making this happen. So thank you for that. Um, but like I very distinctly remember like walking into that lunch, like just not knowing what to expect, like is this going to be friendship? Is this going to be like business contacts? Are we like never going to see each other again?

Speaker 2:

Um, and then, like, just coming into this list, like like I always say, like Rachel feels like a war, like a velvet blanket to me and I can just like like sitting in that energy. And then I was super intimidated like coming into lunch, cause I'm like who am I in this group? And actually I talk about you guys all the time and I was telling a friend recently who wants to do some ancestral healing on their land about Rachel and about this group, and I was describing each of you and she was like so what are you in this group?

Speaker 3:

And.

Speaker 2:

I was like um, great question. Um, so Jesus, yeah, I bring the Jesus energy. Um, so I do, let's see. I guess a little bit about what I do bring to the group is um, I'm very much into uh living an intentional life and also, um, moving intuitively and channeling spirit through uh movement, breath work, meditation. So I'm like a movement instructor, yoga teacher I in my personal practice primarily do Kundalini yoga. I do that every single day and kind of dive into the philosophy of yoga.

Speaker 2:

So it's been very cool to, having been incredibly kind of intimidated like what am I doing in this coven? Um to kind of get to this place now where I've been able to share some of those gifts with all of you and recognizing that like we all have kind of these unique ways of connecting with spirit and of channeling and um, so I feel like you have helped me kind of step into that power and recognize I didn't even realize what I was doing when I was teaching was channeling. So that's been like very cool for me. And then also just to have like all of a sudden I have like three best friends that I can tell anything to, a personal professional, but constantly it's just like this deep level of unwavering support that comes with a push, like a challenge to overcome set, remember who you are um, and then like, what are you gonna do to like get where we know you want to be um? So it's like i't know, it's just like the best kind of love.

Speaker 3:

Oh, the best kind of love. I love that, Nicole. Let's pass it over to Jess.

Speaker 1:

It's just like Jess is the Dalai Lama of the group, Like I want to call you the Jesus of the group, but there's just something so Zen about you.

Speaker 1:

And like and I don't think Jesus is Zen too, but I don't think Jesus knows that person or people don't know Jesus in that perspective as much. So I just feel like you are just the Zen subtle and I like I want you to know we love and obviously cherish and want you here in this group. But it's just so funny because I think Jess puts up with us. We're just I mean us on the group chat. We're just back and forth like crazy witches talking to the dead. I received this channel message today. So I think so, jess, thank you for putting up with our crazy.

Speaker 1:

And then number two, you're so Jess is so subtly intuitive, like, so subtle, and it's so integrated into who you are, jess, as a person and like and that's exactly, I think, the point you made like you didn't even realize you were channeling this stuff. So it's just so for you this feels natural, and I think there's something amazing about the way that each of us are connected to spirit, which is so different than each other, and I think that's what makes this such a wonderful mix, because Jess is just like the super busy one that will just pop in with the, with the knowledge bomb, randomly when she has time between all of the her engagements that she has Right, but like her knowledge, bombs are amazing. And then Adriana like you, you really dive into the practical, the what, the how, like underneath the surface. How do you feel about that?

Speaker 1:

How like emotions, like I don't deal with emotions very well, so I love that about you and then, like Rachel is just like the, she is the warm blanket, she's just got the heart on her sleeve, wanting the best for you. Really, I'm going to say Rachel as well, like challenging who who we are and our perspectives, and always having this can do attitude about who we are. So like I just love all of us as a group and me I'm the one that like is so practical, black or white, yes or no, here's the information from spirit. Take it or leave it. So, like all of us together, I think just create this amazing faceted um coven or whatever word you group, whatever word you want to use for us, that really come together in a cohesive way that allows us to really just amplify each energy and intentions and help us grow. So I just love all of us together.

Speaker 1:

But I will say I want to take a step back for one second because this is not my first coven and I don't know if you all know that this is my second coven that I belong to and I was fucking burned from my first coven, like to the point where, like, two of the people just stopped talking to me and I don't know why they stopped talking to me. So I, completely honestly, was pretty apprehensive walking into this, because I'm all or nothing and you, you all know that I'm all or nothing I am. I will put it all out there and you can either take it or you can walk away, but I'm not going to change who I am for anybody. So I just want to appreciate all of you. Thank you all of you for just accepting me for who I am and allowing me to be who I am as well in this group.

Speaker 1:

But I guess I'll end it with who I am and allowing me to be who I am as well in this group. But I guess I'll end it with who I am, which is probably where I should have started. But I so I am a former corporate girl that works worked with top CEOs across the country healthcare, financial services, fortune 500 companies. I've worked with healthcare, government, you name it and that was like my prior life in my business world, doing process improvement, project management, all that jazz.

Speaker 1:

And then I found out three years ago I think three years ago now that I could see spirit, or my son could see spirit with his eyes. So I became now an evidential medium, a Kaushik records reader, and I'm learning how to do shamanism right now. So it is kind of like once the channel opened, it all opened records reader and I'm learning how to do shamanism right now. So it is kind of like once the channel opened, it all opened, and now I'm here and I just channel all the information all the time and I wouldn't want it any other way you really do.

Speaker 3:

You turn it on like that yeah, yeah, I have.

Speaker 1:

I think it's like Jess, like I never knew it was there until I knew it was there and I was like, oh, there, it is got it, so it's. So. I feel like I feel like it was there until I knew it was there and I was like, oh, there, it is Got it, so it's. So I feel like I feel like Jess, I just have this like sisterly affection for you, because I feel like I'm in that world 24-7 too and I just never knew it.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I also think that, like um, like, you bring the tough love to the group more than anybody.

Speaker 1:

I would say at like I.

Speaker 2:

You've given me so many readings where you're like I want to say this, but I don't want you to be mad at me. I feel like you preface that a lot, but it's super inspiring Cause you do. You just show up like fully as yourself. Also, when you said this is my second coven, I heard second coming. So I think that's like that jesus energy. Yeah, but yeah, I mean like we've all been, we've all been burned by women, right 100 here we are showing up.

Speaker 4:

No, not me. I've never been bullied in my life and introducing Rachel. It's me hi, I'm Rachel. I am an ancestral healer, psychic medium, channeler, do a little bit of everything. I'm obsessed with this conversation just because, like it is so authentic that like I can tell this is how each of you individually feel and it really is like filling my cup so much because, like I chronically have the Sally Fields moment of like you guys really like me, like you really like me, we love you.

Speaker 2:

We're obsessed with you. It's crazy.

Speaker 3:

I can't tell, if I just like want to like be with Rachel or be on Rachel. I'm just like I just all the time.

Speaker 1:

Rachel, polyamorous over here. Yeah, I, I'm so in.

Speaker 2:

She proposed to me guys.

Speaker 4:

You guys can fight over me, it's okay, it's happening. It's just it's so funny because, like I just I do want to echo, before I get into like what I do, I want to echo that, like you guys all came into my life in such an integral moment when I really needed it, because I had been existing in this space. I have met a lot of wonderful people online. Like I met my best friend online through TikTok. I bullied her into being my friend and was like this is what's going to happen. So I was. It's not out of the realm for me to make these types of friendships, but it'd been so long and like I hadn't had anyone local. Like and like I'm from Worcester and like I just I've never been accepted the way you guys accept me. So I was. I remember walking into this and being like you know it's going to be whatever and I'm going to be my weird self and then I'm going to leave and I'll be fine. And then you guys started talking and I was like they talk, like I do, and like you guys started sharing the things you share, and I was like they share, like I do. But it's just, I felt immediately held and supported by each of you individually. And, like Nicole, you channel me, you challenge me to like be a lot more open with the messages I get, because, like Nicole and I do a lot of like, we do two sides of the same coin. Where she shows up and she's like this is how you say it. And I'm like well, I think this could mean this. And she was like no, you need to just fucking say it. And Jess came into my life where I was really tapping into my clairsentience and I'm just putting together how much kundalini is is really bringing me home to that. So it's fucking incredible. And then, adriana, with the being, you see me so fully that I don't even see myself this way. Like sometimes you'll ask me if I like what I need or if I'm supported. I'm like am I okay? And like, I've done EMDR therapy before. So I'm like am I okay? And I'm usually not. So it's just, it's something about the way you guys all really just hold and support me. It's just I'm so grateful for. But long story short, so I am an ancestral healer.

Speaker 4:

I fell into this five years ago. I accidentally blew my third eye open with too much THC oil and then just figured out. I knew stuff and that I've always known stuff and I've been able to put that into some. I've kind of put together a business haphazardly and my favorite thing about you guys is you guys told me I could do it and my business has grown fivefold since. You know, since meeting you guys, it's been so much more consistent. I have accountability. I have goals now where I just I knew that I wanted to help people and I knew I had reach, but I didn't know how to get there and that's what you guys have all helped me with. After our first meeting I went home and I was like I'm going to start a website and then I finally, after our 12th meeting, I finally raised my prices you know, and people started paying them, which is wild.

Speaker 4:

Crazy. You guys reminded me of my worth in such a loving way because I am a Worcester girl, so I'm not going to receive Rachel. You're so lovely and brave I'll be like get fucked, get out of here. Sorry for cursing, I should come with an expletive, but and so yeah, I see I don't see spirit in the traditional sense. I'm more like I put patterns together and I'm really good at picking up on different threads and kind of weaving them into one tapestry, like there was one day I was reading Nicole and we were talking about how things can go in different directions and at the same exact time two different propane trucks drove on the opposite sides of my street and I was like, oh, you have to go north to south, east to west and it's just things like that. That's what I can do. I don't know how to explain what that is. I'm getting excited.

Speaker 3:

So now.

Speaker 4:

I'm getting all over the place. Well, you just reminded me we never even talked about the weather vane part Like when we first sat down like it was, you know.

Speaker 4:

So, yeah, we should talk about that. And just there's been so many like correspondences that I think align, where it just made me realize how integral you guys will be moving forward into my life and like you guys came in at a point in my life where I was getting like I need feminine support and I had never had it before and you guys all give it to me in such loving ways. That is good Because, again, if you get too close, I'm like a cat. If you get too close to me right away, I don't go away. I have to earn my love.

Speaker 3:

I feel that I wonder if that resonates with all of us here. Do we all feel like we go into that a little bit? Yes to Jess, yes to Nicole, yeah for sure yeah. Just the feminine wound what Rachel?

Speaker 3:

Yeah that's probably what it is, it's the feminine wound, mm. Hmm, and that's when I first sat down with Jess. That was one of the things I said is I was like I so secretly want just like a mom friend who will come watch the Bachelor with me on the couch when, like my husband's traveling or something, and you bitches are all too far away. But for real, but that's I was like. So I was like I'm gonna be open and vulnerable, like I want best friend status here, like that's that's what I need right now. And we didn't even have to like push for that to be what this is. But it just kind of happened that way, which is really nice, and the weather vane. We were all sitting at lunch realizing we're all from different areas of Massachusetts and Nicole, was it your husband, husband, that named us the weather yeah he's really good at naming things.

Speaker 1:

If anyone wants to hire him, he's just rated right off the bat.

Speaker 4:

That's what I call us. We're the weather vane coven.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, yeah, I love that for us. And so something I probably should have mentioned at the very beginning. I'm going to try and remember everyone's human designs. Correct me if I'm wrong. Jess is a four one generator. Nicole is a one three projector. Yes, rachel is a one three projector. Yes, rachel is a three five manifesting generator. So we all have very different energies and you see that, coming to the group chat too, like nicole, rachel and I have defined throat centers and we tend to be in the group chat, and then jess with our undefined, is like let me just feel all this energy and just say this like one collective thing and it's just like boom done. So. It's so interesting seeing how that comes in, I know um, but Kevin Smith of the group for sure.

Speaker 2:

Nicole, I didn't know you were a line one that explains a lot. Yeah for like, because I feel like we connect on this like intellect, like I'm gonna dive deep into this, like you guys do a thing yeah you guys do get deep with it fast and I'm like Jesus, I need scuba gear.

Speaker 4:

And you guys like like and can we? Can we talk about, like my favorite thing as like a practicing, which is I practice. I practiced alone since 2016. I've done maybe three or four different spells with other people, but that's about it. And, like one of our first hangout sessions, we all did a spell together. Like that felt so, and I feel like we should do a check-in on that later because I feel like it'd be good to see where the energy's at with what we released.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, and let's let's touch on that topic here the the doing everything solo, whether it be spell work or business or whatever, versus like doing it with a group of people. There's always time where you want to just put your head down and do something solo, on your own, yes, and then when you do that for always, you never get as far. So, yes, I selfishly wanted a group of women to be my friend. I'm a line four. That's what we fucking want. Just more friends all the time, but like good friends, like deep friends and somewhere with the word deep in the scuba gear and all right. Coming back, but like the way that my business has transformed. It's been huge because, like I mean, everyone's already touched on it here I didn't realize just how much I was channeling beforehand until you guys started calling out like that's like, just take that as a message, just say that you see it like this.

Speaker 3:

And since I've been packing the way that I speak more with a punch, there's been getting like more massive transformations in my work. It's crazy, like was this last week One of my clients. She said she had a fear of planes and some anxiousness, whatever. Intuitively, right there on the spot, I did this thing with her. She messaged me again yesterday. Last week she was like my first flight was fine, no problem. She messaged me again yesterday. It was like I got on a flight home, didn't even need a CBD, I completely forgot, and I don't know that I would have jumped into it with such confidence and been like let's just stop right here and let's clear this. Had it not been for all the times that you guys were like that's your clear cognizance, like just talk with that, because I didn't know that Like that was shut down, I would say something and someone would push back on it and be like, oh, I guess I'm wrong. Like stop talking, I'm wrong.

Speaker 2:

So let's talk about, like the growth that you guys have had personally, spiritually, in business, whatever, since here, and we'll go back over to Jess to kick it off, okay, yeah um, I was just thinking, as you said, that like, um, because I'm someone who I really value like, uh, like quiet contemplation, like individual practices, practices, and I could disappear into that and completely isolate. But I don't think that's what I'm here in this life to do. I'm being aligned for it as well. I think that a big lesson is, you can go so deep on your own, but until you have that mirror in front of you of people who you love and trust and who you know will support you and challenge you continuously, you can't get to that next level.

Speaker 2:

So I think, in terms of even just like my own, like understanding of God, spirit, universe, everything, being able to actually have conversations that are not going to be colored by religious dogma or how you were raised or whatever, being able to have open and honest conversations, has allowed me to get access to more resources, better resources, a higher level of understanding. That is letting me go deeper. So that's been like a huge piece. That's top of mind for me. And then, in terms of my business, I think I've just because I'm just more and more with, like you know, collectively and individually, kind of evolving I'm stepping like more into my authenticity very comfortably and doing things that are more aligned with what I want to be putting out to my community very easily, and if it's, if it doesn't feel right, I'm just like, nope, don't care. Don't care that that would be a hit, like you know, I'm just not into it. So those are two massive things that this group has helped me with.

Speaker 1:

I love that, I love that so much and I I have to, I have to kind of second what you're saying as well, jess, because I think both of us as a line one um, go into the weeds of things. So I know evidential medium and I have mediumship and I've done that since day one in the spiritual work. So I, like, I know so much about evidential mediumship, so much about the Akashic records I'm getting there with, with the shamanic practices as well. So I've been, really I'm going to stay stuck in my silos because this is what I'm comfortable with, this is what I like, I've just I've deemed myself just passionate about spirit communication, whether that's guides, whatever, I like talking to them, because the dead people are really funny and they're, they don't come with biases like all of us here, no offense, everybody. So I think all of you have really helped me open up and kind of, I'm going to say, given me more breath to my work, whereas, like, I've had readings where I've had the person specifically say you have never been a witch Like you. You've always been a healer, you've always used spirit, but you've never been a witch Like in the sense of like I'm going to say the negative witch, because Rachel over here is the good witch, right. So it's just like these things that I I wouldn't normally dabble in, like human design, really cool, all that. It's all Greek to me, right. But now I find myself in client readings being like I bet you're a projector. So I'm going to say it's given me, I think, broader perspective into this spiritual work and it's allowed me to expand my horizons, which has, like number one, given me more confidence as somebody who does this work.

Speaker 1:

That, and to just this point, like really expanded me in my comfort level, in my confidence level about this work, because it's not just my two or three modalities, it's all these modalities. They all kind of go together and whatever you most resonate with is absolutely great, pursue that. But also, at the same time, it's just given me this ability to I don't know just grow my business in different ways. I didn't think possible to your point, adriana, and it's really just. I think the term expansive just keeps coming into my mind. It has created expansiveness in terms of my abilities, what I think my potential is, and that will eventually equate to my business. I don't know if it has personally yet, but I know that it's going to be there, but I'm the type of person that needs all the ingredients before I toss them in the soup and figure out what that soup's actually gonna look like and taste like. But that's me personally. But yeah, I just so much potential. Thanks to all of you rachel, it's.

Speaker 4:

So I just to echo exactly what you guys said, it's. You guys have all given me different languages, right? Like I do the same thing in my readings. Now, when someone's talking, I'm like, oh, I wonder what human design is. Have you ever looked up human design?

Speaker 4:

And I looked into human design back in 2020 when it like it was on tiktok for like a second and while it made sense to me, I couldn't understand it, but it was like my brain was refusing to take in the information. Same thing with Kundalini. But that job did to my consciousness in 2020 as well. Couldn't fucking absorb it. And now you guys have given me language, so I'm able to.

Speaker 4:

And it's funny too, because I have a lot of clients. I have a lot. I have on in like Instagram and stuff I'll post about you guys. And I have on in like Instagram and stuff I'll post about you guys. And I have people message me and they're like how did you find them? And I refer a lot of people over to Adriana's the Magnetic Rebellion. I have a lot of women that really have this feminine wound that you, that they vibe with me because I'm nurturing and loving and I'm like I know that this is in you and I know that there are different modalities, that kid that you can help with you know. So it's not only have you guys given me language, you've given me like help, you know, because I have clients too that go through like traumatic experiences and stuff, and sometimes that'll stick with you and like there was one time where I remember messaging you guys, me like there's something wrong with me. You know I like, but it was something to to do with my biceps and my hands were going numb and Jess was like stand up and shake. It's connected to your heart center. And I had been working since 9 am in the morning and it was like 4 pm. I was all day channel, channel, channel and I did. And it was the first time I felt relief in weeks I wouldn't have done that. If it wasn't, I wouldn't have put the two together. And so not only have you guys helped my business, but you've helped me spiritually in my business and it's just, it's given me. You're like a little spiritual army. You know, that's how I look at you guys. You're not only you're my backup, but you're like my. We're not chess pieces, we're not pawns, but you guys are on the battle line with me. You know. It's just it's, it's so wholeheartedly, I love it so much.

Speaker 4:

Did I answer your question? I don't think I did. Yeah, you did Okay and I wrote some. What'd you say? I said and you've helped my business because you guys told me to read my prices and how to put myself out there more authentically, because I was starting to. You know, it was like I need to stay in this niche and I need to do readings. And you guys were like well, you don't just do readings, you do other stuff too. And I got stuck in the Instagram like the branding of it all. You know. I was like well, this is the content that works. You were like but does it work if it doesn't serve you?

Speaker 3:

Wait. It can feel good for me too. What, what? Wait, it can feel good for me too. What, what?

Speaker 4:

what do you mean? This is to bleed.

Speaker 3:

I'm a fucking martyr by line hello but you touch on something that I really want to point out, and I think it might be like the underlying theme of this whole conversation. Really is that that moment when your hands and your shoulders were like weird and and instead of doing nothing, you chose to ask the group. And that sounds so simple, but there's times when I definitely find myself being like I'm not going to ask for help. I asked too much of this person, I asked too much of this group. I do, I'm just going to figure it out on my own Right, and that is like the opposite of what I wanted for this group. But I still find myself doing it sometimes.

Speaker 3:

And so you just saying like asking for help, and that changed how I felt the first time in weeks. Like that's what we need. We need to feel vulnerable enough to ask for help and to put out there whatever. It's like the weirdest thing, like I just need to get out of my house, will someone meet me for dinner? And then Rachel, last week, when my husband was away, she's like all right, let's go meet for dinner. And then, of course, my son got sick. So that's my life when Tim travels. But like that's so important is that vulnerability piece and that willingness Cause like we all want to help, like Rachel in your instance, we all want to help you and like I would be sad if I found out you weren't asking for help, because I would literally pick up the phone right now and call and like help you. And so I need to remember that people also want to do the same back and everyone in here like asking for help all the time.

Speaker 4:

That is one thing I definitely want to touch on, not to make it like super personal, but like I am going through something in my personal life and like I've leaned on you guys so much in a way where you help me see. So it feels so seen, because it's something that like I've struggled with my whole life, like looking at the spiritual aspect of things and not recognizing that's what I was doing. So now, with my mother transitioning to hospice, being like, hey guys, this used to happen. I think this is spiritually connected. You guys don't shame me, you receive me, you hear me and then you fucking see me too. You receive me, you hear me and then you fucking see me too. It's the wildest thing I know.

Speaker 2:

It sounds like it's not but it is so freeing because in my most vulnerable moments, you guys hold me.

Speaker 4:

Thanks, I just wanted to say that. I'm not crying. It's just crazy, because we've been conditioned to do all of this by ourselves and, like so many of us, go through these experiences where we feel like we have to go through them alone. But they're so fucking magnetic, like magnetic, magnetic Magmanus. That's not a word. You're looking for the word for gigantic? Yes, but magnormous Is that a word.

Speaker 4:

I for the word for gigantic, yes, but magnormous is that a word? You don't know, but I like it. But I want to say magnormous, nicole would know, nicole is that a word?

Speaker 1:

yeah, is that a word. You're smart. I would go after gigantic, but okay, I always look at nicole like mom.

Speaker 3:

I'm like mom, literally. So, as we are wrapping up this conversation, I'd love to hear, like, what message you have for someone listening right now. Like, why, why is having a group like this, or even just a person like one or two other people, why is this so important, jess?

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I think, just to kind of summarize, like what we've all said, it's just, it's that it's practicing vulnerability. It's like the deep, the availability and accessibility of a deep level of emotional connection that I think only other women can provide, and we're all so fucking scared of that that we. That's why we don't like all day I've been having a shitty day and I, like you tried to help me and I was just like I don't have time and I don't even know what to say, I don't know how to ask, um, but part of that is also, like you know my issues with vulnerability and intimacy, you know. So it's like we got to show up in this space again and again and again and realize like, oh, oh, I could have asked for help, oh, I could have leaned on them. And then, like, when any of you do that, like in our group text, I'm just like I want to help you so much, you know, like it's not even like it is just like an outpouring of my soul, like, yes, I am here for you, like I just don't think you can get that anywhere else.

Speaker 2:

You know, you have to like open yourself up to these kinds of friendships and also, I think, like being at this phase of, like my life, my career, like the age that I'm at, um, it's hard to make new friends and you have to be like, really intentional about it and you have to be like, okay, I'm going to, I'm going to be vulnerable, I'm going to share, I'm going to ask for help, um, and I. That's why, like, we've known each other six, seven months and I feel like this level because, like, we are all here for it, we are all here for a purpose. It's not just like, oh, I went to high school with them, or you know, I've known, I've just known them forever, it's my husband's friend or whatever. So it's just like that, like making it happen, showing up for yourself and others is other women specifically. I think it's just so magical. And, rachel, I just want to applaud you for not saying sorry once in this entire recording. Oh my god.

Speaker 3:

Thank you, jess, I didn't even pick up on that. Anybody listening? Please give Rachel a round of applause because she's always apologizing for herself always and she has not good pickup.

Speaker 1:

Jess I love that you apologize for not apologizing Um. So I'm going to say we love Rachel, um. So I wrote down a couple of notes here, but I I think the easiest way I can synthesize this is you know, I know, with every group there's there's different purposes. So, like you need to find a group, a coven, whatever it is that is at where you are and where you're going. So I think this group that you're listening to here today, we are all in this really transitory state right now, where and I hate to use the word, it's such a buzzword but we're all trying to ascend and I'm going to say it like neutrally, in a way, that we are trying to become the next version of ourselves, business, ourselves, our growth. I think it all comes together.

Speaker 1:

So for me, this group is an amazing way to provide reflection on where we're at, what are our truths, what are our flaws, so that we can actively look at them from a nonjudgmental perspective, I would say. Similarly, having a group where you can celebrate success is so huge. Like I feel like there is no other place where I can just voice, memo this group and be like holy shit, could you? And like everyone else in the mediumship group. I'm sorry they would all be like catty and jealous and like, because there's so much competition and there's no competition here, there's only elevation. And then the last thing I just want to say is that when we work together with similar goals, we amplify each other's energy. So that is actively happening. What we're texting each other is that we're we're essentially helping each other be clear and be better channels for ourselves and for each other. So that's what I would have to say with this group.

Speaker 3:

Yep, the energetic up level that just naturally happens in a group, yep yeah.

Speaker 4:

Agreed and I agree with that and like, everything that kept popping in my head while we were talking is like, how much I want to like not obviously you don't have to look for people that are going to embrace esoteric wisdom the way you guys do, but I feel like that's what each of us I feel, like our friendship and like our relationships, like I don't know why I just I keep thinking of like the esoteric, like truths that have survived over generations, and like we have them inside of us and I feel like every time we interact, we're birthing more of them, if that makes sense, through healing the feminine, through supporting each other and the fact that we're all businesswomen. It's just there's. There's a lot of many layers, like Shrek, right, like an ogre, but I I would say like, and also to say the sorry thing not only yes, I am known for apologizing so much that my brother-in-law wrote happy birthday, dear, sorry, on a birthday cake for me and that was very funny, which is true. So I really appreciate you guys seeing me and lovingly helping me not do that, because I would yell at anybody for apologizing for themselves, so hypocritical. But spending time with people that want more out of life like you guys. That's what you guys challenged me on.

Speaker 4:

Like there are so many times I'll be sitting there. I'm like what would they be doing right now at their time? Like you guys are much more intentional and that's that's how I want to live my life. You guys are much more nurturing and opening. That's how I want to live my life. It's, I feel like my higher self picked you guys because that's who I want to embody. And like having conversations where I'm like my higher self tells me this, like you guys receive it so lovingly and that's something that is so fucking rare. But that's the world I want my kid to grow up in. I want her to grow up in and that's the other thing that's cool is like all of our kids get along. Like I want her to grow up in a world where the supportive feminine of the girl's girl, you know, and we weren't raised in that but I feel like that's what we're birthing.

Speaker 3:

Guys, I'm scouting out our plot of land so we can all build houses Like. I'm not even kidding you. It's on my list, it's always been on my list. Love it as long as not Oxbridge man.

Speaker 2:

No, no, I don't want to stay here. I don't want to stay here. It's been on my list too.

Speaker 4:

Adriana, like I'm here for it, so here I will marry all of you individually and collectively.

Speaker 3:

I say that all the time or we could just all live on the same compound. You know, love it. Thank you guys so much for being here. Um, I am thinking we'll probably do a lot more of these conversations because there's so much that we can share on. And thank you all for continuing to push me to grow, because you all, in your own ways, intimidate the fuck out of me, and I know that's always a mirror for me to be like oh, what is it that they have that I want to get better at? So that's what I intentionally wanted with a group like this. I was tired of feeling like I was the furthest along in groups and I wanted to put myself around other people like that, and it sounds like we all feel similar, at least a little bit, so that we can all grow together.

Speaker 3:

We'll put all your contact info in the show notes. So, guys, if you want to connect with Jess or Nicole or Rachel, we'll put all their stuff in the show notes. Thank you guys so much for being here. I love you and I'm sure I'll text you in like five minutes. So, love you guys. Love you. Bye, guys.

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